The Power of Kindness: How One Small Act Changed a High Schooler’s Life

A life-changing question for a teen who always ate lunch alone

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The Power of Kindness

In the halls of Boiling Springs High School, the first day of a new school year often brings a mix of excitement and nerves for students. But for Andrew Kirby, a high school sophomore, the day began with the familiar routine of sitting alone at lunch. Andrew, who was born with a neurological disorder and has undergone multiple surgeries throughout his life, wasn’t used to having company during lunch. Making friends hadn’t come easy for him, and he often found solace in the comfort of his phone during those solitary moments.

His mother, Kay Kirby, always worried about him. Each day, she would send him a text during lunch, asking if he was eating with anyone. The answer was usually the same: “No.” It was a response that broke her heart. “I sat at my desk at work and just prayed,” Kay recalls. “I said, ‘Lord, please send somebody to eat with him.'”

But on that first day back at school, something incredible happened. Members of the student council noticed Andrew sitting alone and decided to invite him to join them. It was a simple gesture, but it was one that would make all the difference.

The students explained their motivation with a refreshing sense of empathy: “If we were sitting by ourselves, we would want someone to sit with us, so we didn’t want kids to have to sit by themselves.” Another student added, “Everyone needs to have someone, and anyone can be a help with that.”

For Kay, this act of kindness meant the world. “It’s very encouraging to know that there are teenagers out there who took their time to reach out to somebody who might be different,” she said. “The peace I have now at lunch… I don’t feel like I need to text him and check on him.”

What began as an invitation to share a meal quickly blossomed into something much more. The student council members didn’t just invite Andrew to their table for one day; they asked him to join them every day. They even extended their friendship outside the cafeteria, inviting Andrew to a movie night just a few weeks later.

Kay couldn’t hold back her gratitude. She publicly thanked the students on Facebook, sharing how their kindness had made a profound impact on her son’s life. Her post resonated with thousands of people, garnering over 14,000 likes. In it, she shared a photo of Andrew, beaming as he told her, “Mom, I didn’t eat alone! Some student council members asked me and three others who were eating alone to come sit with them. They said we could eat with them again tomorrow too!”

Kay and her husband Tyler adopted Andrew when he was just a baby, fostering him through a difficult beginning that included a drug addiction at birth. Andrew was later diagnosed with neurofibromatosis, a genetic condition that causes tumors to form in the brain, spinal cord, and nerves. Despite these challenges, Andrew has grown into a loyal and kind-hearted young man, though his shyness has often left him isolated at school.

For years, Kay had been accustomed to Andrew’s lonely lunchtimes. She would try to hide her tears when he would tell her he was sitting alone, and Andrew would do his best to comfort her by saying, “Mom, it’s okay. I get on my phone, so I don’t notice.”

A life-changing question for a teen who always ate lunch alone

But this year, things were different. The student council’s small but significant act of kindness changed everything. Not only did they provide Andrew with a seat at their table, but they also gave him something he had been missing—a sense of belonging.

Senator Tim Scott even took notice of the students’ good deed, thanking them in a video posted on Twitter. “You took the time to make someone feel special,” Scott said, acknowledging the powerful impact of their actions.

Andrew has continued to sit with the same group of friends every day since that first lunch together. They chat in a group text and have more plans to hang out outside of school. His father, Tyler, expressed how much this means to their family: “Every day, Andrew comes home, and you can tell that this has been a great encouragement to him.”

The students who befriended Andrew are now even trying to arrange their schedules so they can continue to eat lunch together in the future. What started as a single act of kindness has grown into a lasting friendship, proving that sometimes, the smallest gestures can make the biggest difference.

In a world where high school can often be a challenging place, the actions of these students remind us all of the importance of kindness and inclusion. As Kay Kirby said, “It may seem small to them, but they made a difference in his life.” And in doing so, they’ve made a difference in theirs as well.

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